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Number 100
January 2005
 

How To Be A Writer
by Penny A. Zeller

Are you a weekend writing warrior who writes poetry? Are you one who loves to interview others and get their story onto paper? Are you working on the next greatest novel? Do you fantasize about winning the Newbery Medal for your children’s book? Or are all of the above dreams that you dream in between carpooling the kids to soccer practice, working a full time job, and washing the dishes? If so, how can you become a writer? Below are a few hints to get you on your way.

Realize you ARE a writer.
A friend of mine who recently joined our writing group told me the other day that she wasn’t sure she should attend the upcoming writer’s retreat because she had not yet published anything. I quickly spouted off my famous wise words, "Thou art a writer if one writes, not only if thou has been published. Publication makes no difference, it only shares the written piece with a wider audience." So remember, if you love to write, whether it be poetry or fiction, you are a writer, even if you have never been published.

Let everyone know.
When someone asks you your profession, you most definitely should say you are a writer. It is highly unlikely they will ask you for a run down of the publications your work has appeared in. They are more apt to say, “Wow, that’s great. What type of stuff do you write?” You can then answer appropriately. This also helps to reinforce the idea in your own mind. I recall when I first became a writer. A woman asked me my profession and I answered meekly, “I’m a writer.”

Being from a mostly-rural state, I should not have been surprised by her response. “So, do you train the horses too?” she asked me. It took me a moment to realize what she had said when I answered, “Oh, not a rider, I am a writer. I write for magazines!” I did not bother telling her I had written articles that were both writing and riding related.

Be a sponge.
A writer’s conference nearby? Attend it. A writer’s retreat or seminar? Be there. A college course on how to fine-tune your grammar skills? Sign up. Be ready to soak up any information you can about writing. Books on the writing craft are very helpful also. A few I have found to be especially helpful are: Write Where you Live - Successful Freelancing at Home by Elaine Fantle Shimberg and Writing for Dollars - 75 Tips for the Freelance Writer by John McCollister.

Connect, connect, connect!
Plan on joining a local writing group. Connect and spend time with other writers. Ask questions. Subscribe to writing newsletters. Join writing organizations. The benefits are numerous.

Find a mentor.
Be on the lookout for an experienced writer to be your mentor. Latch on to someone who is willing to give honest critiques of your work, answer your questions, and help you get a start toward your dream. You never know, someday you may have the honor of being a new writer’s mentor!

Start a fan club.
Long before anyone else believed in me, my grandmother did. I have never forgotten her positive words. To this day, although she lives in another state, I keep her updated on my current projects and mail her copies of everything I have written. Children are good fans also. When I finished my children’s book at 11:30 p.m., I ran (taking two steps at once) downstairs and excitedly exclaimed to my oldest daughter, Madisyn, “Guess what! Mommy finished her book!” Thankfully, my 4-year-old is a night owl like me; I didn’t have to worry about waking her up. She hugged me and said, “Oh Mommy, I’m so proud of you!”

Spouses are great fans too. My husband, although his eyes have glazed over a time or two listening to written pieces that are of obvious non-interest to him, he has always been quick to encourage. As a matter of fact, I believe he will be the best marketing tool for future and present projects.

So whether it is a friend, spouse, child, or grandmother, find someone who will continually give you positive feedback about your chosen career.

Become tough.
Yes, there will be times when your hard work will be rejected and you will want to crawl into a hole and bawl for days. Writing psychiatrists will tell you this is normal. But part of being a writer is to accept the good with the bad. Realize there is a large supply of publications and publishers to which to submit your work. Accept the challenge of finding just the right home for your written piece.

Write, write, write!
Make it a habit to write something everyday. It does not have to be long. Set the timer for 15 minutes and write about anything and everything. Even writing in a journal everyday will give you the practice you need. If you are interested in writing on specific topics, many books and websites offer writing exercises or “writing prompts.”

Try to become organized.
As I write this, my desk is piled high with stuff to file, stuff to submit, stuff to weed-out, and just plain stuff. That said, when you become a writer, you will need a few basic tools for organization. These include file folders (for each piece you have written--yes keep them all!), a filing cabinet (to put file folders, sample copies of magazines, check stubs, and clips in), and a special binder with a chart to keep track of submissions. Divide the chart into six areas: date, title of piece, where submitted, date submitted, what was included with submission (SASE), and response. Be sure to stock up on everyday office supplies, such as a stapler, pens, letterhead, envelopes, and stamps. You will also need a ledger to keep track of expenses and income from your writing for tax time.

Buy a frame.
Yes, you will have that moment of absolute happiness when your first piece (or book!) is published. Make a copy of the acceptance letter or cover of your book and place it in a “document frame.” Display it in a prominent place.

So gear up for the exciting career of being a writer. Strive to write something daily, be dedicated and work hard, learn from others, and watch your dream come true!